The uninvolved parenting style is certainly not a parenting style that parents should choose. It involves giving little or no attention to their children who will not be given much love and in fact the parents will be rather uncaring as well as will not adequately meet their children’s needs or wants. There is also little emotional interaction between parents and children and the child is not properly supervised either. Another ill consequence of the uninvolved parenting style is that there are often lots of vicious interactions between children and their parents.
Another downside to using uninvolved parenting style is that parents will not use effective means of controlling their child’s way of behaving. Typically, this means screaming at the children to do something or else. Also, when parents use uninvolved parenting style the child will generally ignore or whine or even argue a lot with the parents while parents might, after issuing threats and after yelling, withdraw from difficult situations which has the undesired of reinforcing the very actions that they wish to stop the child from performing.
When the uninvolved parenting style is used it also can make the child attempt to assume control (however little) over their parents and this pattern might then, over time, become more pronounced with the ante being upped and so the threats, yelling and abuse starts up all over again. In the end, after a lot of yelling and abuse and threats, the child will then finally comply with the wishes and so put a temporary end to the problem. On the other hand, the child might stubbornly refuse to be cooperative and will continue whining and pleading and ignoring the problem.
Parents that resort to using uninvolved parenting style will generally not respond well to their children’s needs and will also not demand proper behavior on the part of their children and in very extreme instances, uninvolved parenting style can lead to encompassing rejection as a way of coexisting with each other. Unfortunately, in today’s age and time numerous parents that are too busy to take care of their children on account of different reasons tend to use the uninvolved parenting style.
Parenting however, is an action that comes quite naturally to almost every adult. Still, in this day and age, raising children can prove to be quite a daunting task that requires that parents address their children’s needs in the most effective manner possible. Otherwise, their children will become wayward leading to further distress and emotional upheavals.
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